At some point in late 30s or early 40s, while posting online, I made a conscious effort to use avoid emotionally charged language that many people would find insulting–for example, words like “stupid” or “dumb;” as in, “That’s a stupid idea.” This not only reduced conflicts, but this reduction also reduced a level of agitation and the extent to which interactions with others would sometimes bother me, which would linger even when I went offline. Overall, this move elevated a sense of peace in these interactions, while also allowing me to still engage in vigorous debates. I just enjoyed discussing things on the internet a lot more. However, only recently have I realized another important benefit from this shift in language, and that’s what I want to discuss in this post.
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Reading and Discussing T.S. Eliot’s The Waste Land
I’ve never read all of Eliot’s The Waste Land, partly because the recondite references and foreign language passages dissuaded me, but James Parker’s recent Atlantic write-up–or more accurately, guide– has inspired me to finally complete it. I’m going to use this thread to keep notes and process the poem.
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When we were in school, teachers gave us vocabulary words to learn and memorize, but my children don’t have the same experience. To me, this is an oversight that I wanted to rectify. In this thread, I’m going to describe this process, which has brought to light observations that I wouldn’t mind discussing or at least seems worthy to record. Think: a journal of teaching my children vocabulary.
Thread: Tracking and Analyzing Cliched Language
Mitchell and I have been discussing to what degree one should avoid the use of cliches in writing. I find that this discussion seeps into my consciousness when I’m writing, making me more aware of cliches, or possible cliches, in my writing. Additionally, sometimes when I’m in the process of writing, I write what I think might be a cliche, and I’m curious to know Mitchell’s opinion–on whether it’s a cliche and the alternate he would use instead. But I usually forget these specific examples. This thread will be a for these examples, as well as to discuss this topic more generally. By the way, I thought of this topic precisely because I was in the process of writing a sentence that I thought was cliched. Here’s the sentence: “Her judgment may not be as rock solid as she thought.” Is “rock solid” a cliche? I thought it might be so I changed it to “reliable.” But then I thought: Is “reliable” a significantly better word choice–i.e., does it significantly improve the writing? What say, you Mitchell? (Also, I think one of the obstacles in this discussion is the definition of cliche–or more specifically, properly recognizing and labeling a cliche. I hope we can discuss that topic here, too.)
Writing Corner
A thread on writing and issues related to writing. Grammar Corner basically handled questions about writing, but it was technically more about grammar. Plus, that thread was getting long, so here’s a new thread. Here’s my first question: Continue reading “Writing Corner”
Hey, Check This Out! (2020)
I liked this, and I’d guess Mitchell would be interested in this more than Don, for what it’s worth. I’m considering buying Davis’s book.
Grammar Corner
A thread to get your grammar questions answered. Ladies and Gentlemen, the host our show, Mitchell Dwyyyyy-eeerr! Continue reading “Grammar Corner”